• Anxiety about Introductions

    Posted by Brooke F – SBL on April 30, 2026 at 8:33 pm

    How can I control my anxiety with introductions between 2 semi-outdoor cats, that pretty much rescued me but are now my cats… I don’t have experience with cats and my nerves and anxiety are out of control. I really don’t want them to fight. They been neutered both of them. Both males. I’m pretty sure I’m making it bigger in my head.. they did fight once but bc of circumstances… the little one (who isn’t very little anymore, wasn’t neutered) and we were trying to keep the older one in bc we feed birds and he was jumping on the feeder, he was probably annoyed and then cornered the one behind the couch and it was a cat fight and that kind of freaked me out. I think I also experienced trauma from taking the little one to the vet for the first time. The night before and the car ride there was a terrible experience. Anyway…I’m looking at therapy as well, but if anyone can give me some advice. It would be much appreciated. I have been told it will all work out and they will be fine… but it still doesn’t help my anxiety.

    Chris replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago 2 Members · 1 Reply
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  • Chris

    Veterinary Expert
    May 5, 2026 at 4:59 pm

    Hi Brooke, first, thank you for being willing to take in these two cats and provide homes. It certainly can be a bit up in the air with uncertainty when you take in two new cats who don’t know each other. But in many cases, it can work out in one of two ways. First, I find that giving it at least two weeks is a good amount of acclimation time. During this time, you can try to keep them somewhat separated, either in different rooms or with a baby gate, and just see how they react to each other before having more direct interaction. It sounds like you might be past that point, unless you may feel it could help to reinstate a more gradual re-introduction if things were rocky just putting them together right from the get-go.

    Second, I find that after those 2 weeks or so, the cats will either be buddies or they will stake out separate areas of the home and generally avoid one another. In the latter case, how that goes can depend on the home size and set up. It’s important to have separate resources (food, water, litter box, and perches/hiding places) available to each cat and on different levels of the home if possible. Many negative housemate interactions will be related to conflict over valued resources, even just favorite places in a window or on the couch. Providing as many options as possible is helpful.

    It can separately be a challenge sometimes to keep a cat indoors that has been used to being indoor/outdoor or outdoor only. If you feel like you’re seeing specific issues here (like the cat is scratching the door or trying to dart outside, yowling to get out, or even urine spraying behavior) after two weeks of trying an indoor approach, you may need to provide an option to go out. Now this could be an outdoor cat condo, for which there are many options/designs you can find online, or just letting them out. In these cases, always make sure the rabies, FVRCP, feline leukemia vaccines are updated and a flea/tick/heartworm product is being used. I hope some of those tips are useful.

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