I certainly agree that you are probably working with more of a need to be patient as your cat adjusts to a new environment. This can especially be the case for older cats (and by older, just older than a year) if they’ve been really used to another environment. For kittens, if they haven’t really been in a home before, this can take some adjustment too.
Cats, like all animals, are individuals, so while some may adjust quickly, others may take more time to get comfortable. At a minimum, I expect a good two weeks period. But for some cats, this may take months of adjustment.
I think this is more the situation you’re seeing vs. you doing anything classically “wrong”. When my cats were very young, I started out with just a single room to set everything up in, then gradually expanded that to one level of the house. That way they could get comfortable with exploring the environment in a piecemeal fashion and not get overwhelmed with a very large new space. The tips already provided I think are otherwise very good to start with.
In my own case, it probably helped that the three of them could adjust together. For example, Bart was always more skittish and liked to hide more than his siblings, but I think they helped him be more brave when I first brought them home.
By that, I wouldn’t recommend getting a second cat right now as that can add a whole separate level of adjustment you don’t need to work through, but I think if you just have a single cat, realize that the adjustment may take some time and they have to do that to some degree at their own pace.
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Chris.